Thriving not survivng…

Another of my resolutions is to start living. I don’t mean just keep breathing, still putting one foot in front of the other ( although some days that’s all that seems possible) but really living. So I had a psychology assessment the other day and spoke to the same woman that did my assessment exactly …

Old habits…

It’s been a while since I’ve written anything for my blog. I didn’t realise how long until I went to get my laptop out the case and was expecting a white laptop, but completely forgotten I had a new one a few months ago and this one is back… must start paying more attention. Anyway …

Valentines day…

Valentine’s day   So valentine’s day is just around the corner and ill be honest, as stupid as it may seem, I really struggle with it, and I know I’m not the only one. I know that to a lot of people its just another day and people say there’s nothing to worry about or …

The weight of expectation…

The weight of expectation is crushing. The trouble with expectation is that it takes away from your achievements. You could be do the best you can, met goals you never thought you would, but if it doesn’t meet yours or other peoples expectations of you, then its still not good enough. I’ve been told that …

#Careletters

For a start, if you haven’t seen @pigletish post on #careletters , go and look right now! That’s okay, I’ll wait!!... https://pigletish.com/blog/2018/11/14/leaving-letters-for-strangers-psitsok So this week, my sister and I went to London for the day and took the opportunity to write some care letters! The idea being that each hand written card, have a little …

Feeling low …

As the mornings stay darker and its steadily getting darker earlier in the evenings, so many people are affected by an increase in anxiety and depression. There are many reasons for this. You could say that it could be due to seasonal affective disorder ( SAD) which is where the lower sunlight levels can play …

A day with depression…

You have spoken with your friend that you’re not having the best day, but you pick yourself up, paint a smile on and go to work, because what other choice do you have You head is screaming that you shouldn’t go and you’re head battles between thinking your lazy and just depressed. You don’t want …